We know we love someone…

Nós sabemos que amamos alguém quando podemos passar a noite toda sentados à beira do fogo vendo esse alguém dormir.

(We know we love someone when we can spend the entire night just sitting by the fire watching them sleep…)

– O amor é a madeira mais dura, demora muito muito tempo para aquecer, mas quando finalmente aquece…é como nogueira queimando no coração…Isso é incontestável…por fim o “amor verdadeiro” sempre ganha da resolução…

(Love is the hardest of woods.. it takes a long long time to heat up… but it does… its like hickory burning in the heart… it can’t be denied… Ultimately “true love” always wins over settling…)

É disso no qual eu digo sobre o amor, muitas pessoas acreditam que o amor vem rápido em um relacionamento ou deve vir rápido no coração (É muito fácil dizer “eu te amo”), mas não, o que vem rápido é a paixão, o entusiasmo…Muitas pessoas amam da forma mais errada. Eu acho que o amor é um sentimento sem explicação.  É forte! Quando o amor verdadeiro realmente acontece, NADA fica no caminho, não existe obstáculos…E jamais esquecido.

Someone out there is meant to be the love of your life, your best friend, your soulmate, the one you can tell your dreams to. he’ll smile at you when you tell him, but he’ll never laugh at your heart. he’ll brush the hair out of your eyes and send you flowers when you least expect it. he’ll call you to tell you goodnight before you get into bed or just because he is thinking about you. he’ll be bursting to talk to you each morning just to hear the sound of your voice. he’ll look into your eyes and tell you that you are the most beautiful girl he has ever seen and for the first time in your life … you’ll believe it.
Jen Lindley

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São teus olhos, a luz de mil estrelas, são teus olhos…
Você que acendeu a minha vida, não deixe nunca o brilho se apagar
Meu amor, se eu pudesse traduzir meu coração, todas as poesias feitas da paixão, não seriam o bastante para dizer.
Meu amor, no silêncio dos seus braços eu já sei, que no teu abraço eu já encontrei o lugar perfeito pro amor viver.
Meu amor, que transforma o mundo inteiro em um jardim, que me faz acreditar que é para mim que a lua se derrama pelo mar.
Meu amor, eu sabia antes de te conhecer que os meus sonhos me guardavam para você, esperando a hora de te encontrar.
São teus olhos, a luz de mil estrelas, são teus olhos…
 
–x–
 
Se a saudade apertar
Procure no céu
A estrela que mais brilhar, ela será o meu olhar
 

Eu acredito

Eu acredito que nada é por acaso. As pessoas mudam para que você consiga deixá-las para lá. As coisas dão mal para você aprender a apreciá-las quando estiverem boas. E ás vezes, coisas boas se separam para que coisas melhores se juntem.

When a man loves a woman

Sortuda de uma mulher quando encontra um homem que realmente a ama de verdade não só palavras. Homem apaixonado de verdade esquece de tudo e de todos quando esta do lado da pessoa amada, o amor para ele é único.

Beautiful people

The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have find their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen.

Elizabeth Kubler Ros

Thank God I found you

And you, light up my life, You give me hope to carry on…You light up my days and fill my nights with song. It can’t be wrong when it feels so right. Cause, you light up my life
Thank God I found you, I was lost without you
When I thought I had people who care about me
I find out it was a lie
Thanks for be my support, my friend…
Exactly for light  up my days and give me hope
And I hope you are the one I never met,
The one who will be with me no matter what
Hard situations, good times…
Just me and you
Something strong and unbroken
Like I ever dreamed
 
 
Jackie
 
 
 

Kinda hard

Im having strange feelings today, so confused, I look back a few years and I see a lot of things that makes me doubt about. Things like he say that I meant nothing. Its kinda hard to know that.

Changes

Everything changes eventually. That’s just the way life is and you have no control over it. Like suddenly people who you think are always going to be there, they disappear. You know? and when this happen, we learn its time to face it.

Where theres no love, theres no hope~Jackie
William Shakespeare:  O amor não muda quando as mudanças acontecem.

Unconditional love – True love

Imagine that I tell you I love you. I smile at you, speak kind words to you, and perhaps even present you with a gift of some kind. Understandably, you enjoy this, as we all would. Five minutes later, however, I storm into the room describing a mistake that has been made, and while shaking my finger in your face and scowling with rage I say, “Are you the one who did this?!”

How loved do you feel now? That feeling disappeared the moment I entered the room, didn’t it? We’ve all experienced moments like this. For most of us, in fact, this has been a lifelong pattern. This kind of “love” is very disappointing and unfulfilling, because it vanishes when we make mistakes and when we fail to meet the expectations of those who “love” us. This kind of “love” is conditional.

There’s only one kind of love that can fill us up, make us whole, and give us the happiness we all want: unconditional love or true love. It is unconditional love or true love that we all seek, and somehow we recognize that anything other than that kind of love isn’t really love at all—it’s an imitation of the real thing. Unconditional love—true love—is so different from the kind of love most of us have known all our lives that it deserves both a name and definition of its own.

Real Love is caring about the happiness of another person without any thought for what we might get for ourselves.

It’s also Real Love when other people care about our happiness unconditionally. With Real Love, people are not disappointed or angry when we make our foolish mistakes, when we don’t do what they want, or even when we inconvenience them personally. Real Love is unconditional.

When I use the word happiness, I do not mean the brief and superficial pleasure that comes from money, sex, power, and the conditional approval we earn from others when we behave as they want. Nor do I mean the temporary feeling of satisfaction we experience in the absence of immediate conflict or disaster. Real happiness is not the feeling we get from being entertained or making people do what we want. It’s a profound and lasting sense of peace and fulfillment that deeply satisfies and enlarges the soul. It doesn’t go away when circumstances are difficult. It survives and even grows during hardship and struggle. True happiness is our entire reason to live, and it can only be obtained as we find Real Love and share it with others. With Real Love, nothing else matters; without it, nothing else is enough.

** this is how I love, this is how I know~J

Pensamentos

 

Quem ama,  aceita o outro como é, o amor não muda com o tempo, acredito eu, pelo menos esse é meu tipo de amor, tem pessoas que amam condicionalmente e incondicionalmente. Amor é um assunto sério para mim, eu nunca diria “eu te amo” sem realmente sentir, sem ser algo puro para mim, sem pensar que aquela pessoa é realmente de fato especial, insubstituível. Por isso que sou tão difícil para me apaixonar e jamais brincaria com o sentimento de alguém. Não me impressiono com a beleza, com o dinheiro, o poder… Nada disso para mim importa. Afinal, amor baseado nisso tem grandes chances de não dar certo. Eu quero um amor que saiba me amar, que me faça sentir especial pelo o que sou, que lute por mim, que prefira qualquer coisa do que viver sem mim e eu sinta o mesmo. Hoje em dia no mundo em que vivemos está cada vez mais difícil encontrar.

 

My girl said: That guy didn’t know you…because if he did, he would have never walked away from you

Emocionante…chorei!

Anywhere you are, I am near
Anywhere you go, I’ll be there
Anytime you whisper my name, you’ll see
How every single promise I keep
Cuz what kind of guy would I be
If I was to leave when you need me most
What are words
If you really don’t mean them
When you say them
What are words
If they’re only for good times
Then they don’t
When it’s love
Yeah, you say them out loud
Those words, They never go away
They live on, even when we’re gone
And I know an angel was sent just for me
And I know I’m meant to be where I am
And I’m gonna be
Standing right beside her tonight
And I’m gonna be by your side
I would never leave when she needs me most
Anywhere you are, I am near
Anywhere you go, I’ll be there
And I’m gonna be here forever more
Every single promise I keep
Cuz what kind of guy would I be
If I was to leave when you need me most

I’m forever keeping my angel close

*Nossa, chorei, emocionante!!!!

Como diz minha irmã Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒcristina fernandes Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ: O verdadeiro amor tudo supera!!!!

Love is patient and kind; love is not jealous or boastful; it is not arrogant or rude. Love does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrong, but rejoices in the right. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends.
(Bible, part 1 Cor 13)